My question involves criminal law for the state of: Indiana
What should I expect, will he be charged with battery on a minor?
So my son (who is 9 with ADHD, ODD and special needs but knows right from wrong and can explain situations well and in detail ) and I were at my NOW ex boyfriend's house. (We have been dating for 3 years and he knows my son has special needs and my ex and I weren't living together) My ex and I were talking and my son was trying to play pokemon go on my phone. Well I forgot to connect to the wifi and so my son sat down next to me and nicely interrupted me to tell me that the phone wasn't connected. My ex (who is NOT my son's dad and an active duty Marine) approached my son without a word, grabbed him forcefully by his ear, and smacked him in the face. I flipped out on my ex (just yelled at him) and demanded an explanation as to why he struck my child. He wouldn't give me an answer and so my son and I left right away while he cried in pain. I never gave my ex permission to hit my son. My son was scarred and didn't want to talk to the police at the time because it was late but the next day I filed a report with the police because my son had a nice bruise where my ex smacked him.
My ex admitted to grabbing my son by his ear but not smacking him and wasn't arrested. That next morning the cop took photos of my son but didn't ask him any questions. The cop told me I would hear from juvenile detectives and cps but after a week only cps got a hold of me and they also took photos and questioned my son which he told cps worker what happened and even showed the cps worker which ear my ex grabbed and the side he hit him. The next day I called the prosecutor's office and they told me they had the case already in their office which I thought was weird since no one but cps talked to my son and after talking to the cps worker he is having issues getting a hold of the cops to get their photos and report. I called the people's advocate and she told me she looked at the case and that the prosecutor that is assigned to the case would be out for a week. I informed her that my ex would be going back to fleet in about a month and so she is going to try to push it through so they don't have to get a warrant for him if they decide to press charges. She was shocked that no one but cps has talked to my son and she said she would try to schedule an interview with him. I know in the state of Indiana battery on a minor (under the age of 14) is a level 6 felony but can be dropped to a A misdemeanor since my ex has no other priors.
I just think its weird how this is being handled and I don't know what to expect. I want charges to be pressed no one hits my son!



