Thanks dogmatique for admitting you're not perfect either. Hindsight is always 20/20. Believe me, I prayed a LOT before I embarked on any of the decisions I made concerning all of this. I sincerely thought I was doing the right thing. Turns out danged near every possible thing I did was the wrong method of handling things. That being said, we don't learn anything by doing things right, we only learn when we choose wrongly and see the screwed-up results of that poor decision.

