Her father chose not to be in her life by not going through court and getting visitation. I told him he can do so and after 2 years i have never heard anything regarding him wanting rights. And as a mother i would never put my child in harms way. And he was emotionally abusive towards me so i do not mind him not being in her life because who knows how he would treat her, or if in the long run make her believe it was my fault he was not in her life. And he does know where i live. he has been to my house when we were dating. and he has friends of mine and a family member on social media so he could always contact them about contacting me. i have done whatever i needed to do and i do not consider putting my child in a safe place and home selfish.

