I would much rather his father not be in his life than him coming around once in a blue moon and causing our son anymore confusion and heartbreak. I guess that is the goal. I've never kept him from seeing his son, I actually tried to push it as much as possible for a long time with no success.
I eventually want to move to North Carolina. My father is moving soon and I will no longer have any family here.
As far as the hidden camera I was hoping for a way to prove the ugly things he says to our son about me, right in front of me.
You do not think the records of his failed drug rehab and the doctors putting him on suboxone is enough to get a drug test? They keep records of his clinic appointments and the fact that he stopped going for the treatment.

