I would say that Match.com is taking there ball and going home and taking the phone off the hook. They don't need to play hardball. You on the other hand don't even seem to realize that you're yelling at an empty room.

Where did you come up with the idea that you have a right, as someone on the autism spectrum, to demand answers of them? They have the right to tune you out, not the other way around. I'm also interested in your statement that you want people who ignore you (yes, I'm paraphrasing) to be punished. That sort of limits the willingness of others to cooperate with you doesn't it?