My husband pays child support to his ex wife, but their child isn't living with her anymore she is living with his parents (for about 3 weeks now.) My husband doesn't mind paying child support if it is really supporting his child. He would much rather pay his parents than her considering the situation, but he is afraid if he goes back to court for modification she will show up to court and give the court a sob story about how they live in a bad neighborhood and these living arrangements are only temporary (eventhough this is probably not true due to the fact that it is fitting in perfect to her lifestyle to be a part time mom and still collect money.) (she has fraudenltly filled out child support documents before, she is a scam artist.) How long is it reasonable to wait before the court is petitioned, or will she always be able to say she is going to get her back. Oh by the way, yes my husband did want her to come live with him, but we live 700 miles away, without the ex's support the child will not stay with us.

