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Bremer0714
My question involves a child custody case from the State of: OK
I have a court order for my 8 year old to see her dad out of state for two weeks this summer over her birthday. For the sake of the post, I have sole legal and physical custody. No dates are in the order just the basic stipulations of "two weeks during minor child's birthday". Three months ago we agreed to the 9th-23rd of July with a contingency that changes may be made up to four weeks prior of the visitation. I informed him that I needed to change the dates to the 13th-27th, still two weeks during her birthday, five weeks prior. A family matter arose and I can not fly out and get her until the 27th (I also have a two month old who needs watching). He is refusing anything but the 9th because I "already agreed" and says " I'm getting her on the 9th no matter what". I've offered three compromises of the 11th, the evening of the 10th or making no changes but meeting me halfway( a ten hour drive for both) on the 23rd so I can bring my two month old with me. He still refuses. Claims he will be showing up at my home on the 9th, because he doesn't agree to the change and will come to get her "try and stop" him. I guess my question is: if I refuse when he claims he will show up on the 9th, what rights do I have? Will I be in violation of the order even if there are no dates and I have still stayed with the two weeks during her birthday and given him ample time as stated by the order? If he shows up, what can I do legally?