Well, I have no problem with her being a part of our lives... If she could just be a normal person that would be fine. She is never physically around myself or my fiance. It is all verbal attacks via phone or third parties. We are also expecting a baby and I was just trying to seek councel on gaining some peace. But thank you so much for lettinf me understand that I can't do much unless there is a direct attack. That was what was nipping at my curiosity. I don't want to seek punishment towards her. And I don't want to use the legal system as a weopon. I just wanted to know if there was anything I could do to stop her from damaging lies to our families and friends. Thanks to all who replied. I shall put on my big girl pants and just try to ignore it and tell ny fiance the same. Thanks again.
If she is actually harassing you even on the phone you could report it to the police. If you just hear third party statements, then there is nothing to do.
My ex's other ex wife is a raging lunatic and I had to deal with her. She would talk shit about me to their kids and to him. A few times I confronted her over FB or text but most of the time I ignored her fat ass. I have known her as long as him and she has always been nuts so I just laughed it off when she ran her mouth.
Why do you care what his ex says about you? If she has nothing better to do than run her mouth, that shows a lot. If she has nothing better to do than talk about you, that shows how pathetic she is. If your friends and family know you, they know if someone lies. She just wants attention and drama. Do not give it to her.
My gosh... I don't know who you are but your message made me feel much better. It is nice to know that I am not the only one who has gone through this television-like drama. Thank you so much for your pointers.