My question involves criminal law for the state of: NJ and SC
I am 20
-Met on dating app, her age on profile was 21 or 23 ( i forget i deleted it)
-Her profile said she was here for casual sex and I just asked her "what if I was a virgin?" she says "omg we have to talk"
-It sparked my interest
-she gave me her number first, I texted her through a mobile app
-she sent her face pic, i sent a random flexing pic of my body transformation before and after i worked out just a random picture of me on my phone..
-She said no i want to see the monster, i sent her random picture of penis from tumblr, no face.
-I wasn't sure if she was real so I asked her to send a video a 5 second video of her saying my name. (she doesnt have snapchat or facebook apparently).
-she doesn't respond, naturally I'm still eager to know so I ask her again. she says it isn't going through.
-She says that she is 16 and if that is okay? and I tell her she is too young and I cant talk to her I'm sorry.
-She keeps insisting we talk saying she sorry and I just keep telling her sorry.
-She eventually sends a video of her masturbating with a dildo and says "is this good enough? after the fact she told me she is 16 and I said sorry we can't talk. (no face, I did not ask for this)
-I ignore the video and do not respond.
Dad Contact part
-calls my mobile app number
-says he has all the texts/evidence
-Basically he offers 2 situations, we work this out or he calls the police.
-Says her mom found out what she was doing and she ends up in the hospital for cutting her wrists
-ask for $2,400 to cover hospital bills
-i say I am a college student in debt with loans and cannot make payment.
-Awkward silence...he doesn't respond, I ask what advice can you give me.
-He says how about other loans.
-I say what other loans. Can I have your name?
-He says alright man. hangs up.
I feel worried and anxious that I may be in trouble.
There is more to the dad part like saying he not sure what I am up to or if I'm some child predator. Saying I could end up in jail and other consequences. But that is the main summary.
The two phone numbers do not have the same area code but are from the same state, roughly 2 hours apart from eachother.
What do I do?
If this is actually legitimate, would the father of been better off just bringing me to court?
He says alright man in a tone as if he was done with me and is going to call the police.
He says alright to me in a tone as if he was done with me and about to call the police.

