If you post on multiple sites, you will irritate people. And why you post on multiple sites, I cannot fathom - don't you know that the law is the same no matter what site you go to?

That said, your employer is paying you illegally. You both must be paid, separately. And the value of the rent must be shown on your paystubs - part of it on your paystubs and part of it on your BF's paystub.

Your legal recourse for this is to contact your state or federal DOL.

And no, before you start posting this all over the internet, the answer is going to be exactly the same everywhere. So don't bother, don't waste your time or anyone else's.