My question involves juvenile law in the State of: North Carolina
We have a grandson in a neighboring state, who is 4 months away from his 18th birthday. His mother is a drug addict, and his father is deceased. We haven't spoken to his mother in many years, due to her drug abuse and criminal behavior. Our grandson has had a rough life, but recently it has become unbearable. He is currently a senior, but is in danger of failing due to his unstable family life. He recently called us, and begged us to get him. With the secret help of another family member, he is at our house now. His mother thinks he is living with the other family member, and has no idea that he crossed state lines to live with us. She didn't care that he moved out, but she would not be happy that he left the state or came to us.
Our local high school is aware of his situation, and we are trying to figure out a way to get him enrolled without custody papers or parental consent. I don't think he can get emancipated, since he is not independent. He desperately wants to stay here, and we obviously don't want to get ourselves into legal trouble. We are willing and able to help our grandson. He is a good kid...hates drugs for obvious reasons, doesn't drink or smoke, and wants to graduate high school. He deserves a stable home, and some help building a decent future.
Do we need an attorney, or is there another option?

