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Kristin Elizabeth
I'm pretty sure pathetic is the deadbeat who STILL refuses to meet his child but I'll just sip my tea. And who are you to judge? I found a man who accepts me and my child and was there for me when I needed someone (and by someone I mean her father). Her bio-dad has responsibilities that he needs to live up to if you don't agree with that then you are just as pathetic as her father. Sorry not sorry.
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Actually I already stated I was going to tell her the truth. BUT I don't think its fair to my daughter to have my maiden name when her bio-dad is uninvolved and she will have brothers and sisters with a different last name. ALSO, please note your condescending attitude towards my family is not needed. I had a child by a man I knew for four years. I'm not the devil. I am doing the best with what I was given and doing a damn good job at it. BTW, the deadbeat? I've begged him to be in her life I even offered to not take child support or any money at all if she could know him but he refuses so yeah I some horrible person.
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Thank you. I know he would sign away his rights to my fiance in a heartbeat and we are considering that an option but if that happens I know for a fact I will would not tell her about her bio-dad because he truly will be non-existent. I just want to give him the chance to know her because as soon as he signs her away I will not let him be in her life. Until then if he wants to know her I want him to.