Quoting D.C. My boyfriend is getting a transfer to Alaska, Where is he getting a transfer from? Quoting D.C. and we were recently imformed that I would not be allowed to move in with him until sometime after he gets there. Who is "we"? Quoting D.C. I would like to know if they can still deny me living with him if we were to get married. Who are "they"? Quoting D.C. I have never been convicted of anything so have no bad legal baggage if that makes a difference. How old are you? How old is your boyfriend, and is he a registered sex offender?