Hey guy's,
The below is what I have going on. I'm just now looking into getting a lawyer. I do want to sue but i realy do need piece of mind because this is crazy. I dont have anyone to talk to on this (it is everywhere) and figured I'd come on here and find out thoughts on it. Right now I'm wondering if i should go out of town for a lawyer and what type. A better question is do i even have a case where i can sue? I mean, if i cam get people go to jail I want them to go to jail. But thanks and sorry if i sound like a prick, I'm not i just need some advice and realy need someone to agree with me that i have a right to go foreword with this.
But the below is what I plan on emailing a few lawyers and then follow up with a phone call. Thanks
I feel a large group of people are acting as a whole to force me out of town. This has resulted in the loss of income, visitation with my son and a deteriorating mental and emotional state. I’m unsure how to proceed from here and hope to gain some guidance.
I come from a very pour family and dropped out of school at 16 to work. When I was 25 I had a sick son and realized that I needed an education in order to provide. During college I lived in substandard condition until receiving my degree. I then gained employment with a company that did not pay well but allowed me to work many hours and my take home was almost 4 time of what it was in college.
This is when I first started having problems. My job was physical and after a year and a half I basically ran myself into the ground. At home, I was taking care of my mother and with her came the rest of my family. They all come from a low income homes and I was dealing with them stealing from me, squatting. My family became combative. I grew paranoid and began having issues making eye contact. Without the over time from my job I was unable to pay my bills and when given my poor health I quit my job to look for work that would grant me finical stability so I could leave.
While I looked for long term employment, I took a job doing piece work. During the interview I ask the average and was misled. I made dollars less an hour and before I knew it I was in financial distress which resulted in my inability to pursue employment with a higher wage. I did not have a single positive relationship at the time and became resentful and distant from everyone. With no options I gave up.
At this point a young girl started working at my job. She was mean at times but came off playful. It was the first positive relationship that I’ve had in years and latched on to her. We were just co-workers but I wanted it to be more. I knew that the present state I was in (both mental and fiscal health) I would not be able to maintain a relationship with her started trying again.
Honestly I’m not sure if I had a chance with her but did receive competition from her age group at work for her attention. I noticed body language from them that I would do at home. This is when I realized that I was being watched at home. My nephew was squatting in my home and was involved. My whole family was involved. So were my upstairs neighbor and a home across the ally would watch me through my kitchen window. Soon everywhere I went someone was mocking someone from my job or someone from my job was mocking someone from my home. Local store that I had been going to for years became disrespectful.
At work I was harassed. Cigarettes and loss change were stolen out of my car if I ever left it unlocked. I was mocked. During the winter the V.P. would wear a MI State hat and tont me with it. I feel the purpose was to make me feel inferior of my own education that I had gained from a community college. I often felt that I was in positions where it necessary to be aggressive and sometime physical.
Outside of work my family was constantly disrespectful. They would bring up something that had happen 15 years ago (some not even true) blame it on me and use it to coheres my mother into stealing from me for them.
Everyone from the age group 16 to 25 seemed to know what’s going on as males will give me dirty looks and females will expect me to look at them in a sexual manner. I’ve had a group of teenage girls (14 to 16 years of age) stand outside my window expecting me to look at them. I’ve also had a very young girl age 10 to 12 walking down the street wearing a long sleeve pink shirt and blue jeans and walked two blocks down and had a woman in her 30s wearing the same thing trying to get my attention. I believe I may have been pegged as a child predator due to the women that I worked with being 20 and very small. At the time I was 33.
Finally at my job she and I got into a small argument where she told me that she was not interested in anyone that worked there. We both had to go to talk to the HR and I stated that everywhere I go there she is. I told them about people looking through my windows and so on. Word of mouth around the shop is that they goggled her and seen a picture of her smoking marijuana and asked her to take a drug test and instead she walked out and quit.
I went home and goggled her. I had already went on Facebook trying to talk to her there months before that. She seemed too really be into that. This is when I found out that she was a model. I also realized that people had been goggling her and going on her Facebook page and mocking her towards me. An example is I noticed an ambulance in front of my house. I looked outside and there was a man passed out in the lawn. This happened an hour and a half after her friend put up a picture of him passed out on his facebook page. He complained of low blood sugar and walked away from it.
After her walking out I seen her car parked outside of a house. It was where she lived. I started sending messages on facebook telling her that I was going to come find you today or jokingly tell her I was going to stalk her. I did send her flowers. I’m sure she was involved in this but she also seemed to like me genuinely. However, I am constantly manipulated on a day to day and was having a hard time gauging individual’s sincerity.
I ended up loosening my job due to bad attendance. I started working at a plant that wage resulted in me loosening my car and visitation with my son. We were very close prior and I think I was going through grief. At the same time everywhere that I had been was combative and I felt the need to be aggressive at all times. I still currently do. At this job I was constantly manipulated. The grief of my son was seen as sadness for the loss of her.
I did continue to send her funny love letters almost every day through facebook and received a backlash. Some seemed to like them where others were combative. I get fallowed on almost a daily basis. One time on the bus a man and his child were on. I think that he was trying to one up my kid who is cut. His son looked at me and became happy and giggly towards me. I sent her a massage saying “small children and wild animals love me.” Over the next 3 days I had 2 dogs let loose on me.
At my job it was constantly attempted to manipulate me through body language and things were implied instead of being said directly. One individual that would mock the facial expressions on her Google images offered the information that my previous employer screwed me. My supervisor and his girlfriend would do parodies of me and her at my last job. Her friend on facebook had post a statement on the differences in poor people verses rich people. At my first job after college (honestly I’m not sure what I did there) I was exposed to high level management. I was able to then refine my own professional skills. My supervisor started studying how I behaved. I the post it was stated that poor people do not know how to accepted thing and rich people did. He would try to watch how I took items from others. There were also times where I felt that co-workers where acting out situations under his direction in order to see how I would respond to it as there demeanor did not seem guanine. My supervisor was inexperienced and I feel that he was attempting to exploit my current situation.
While there I was hit by a part, spit on in the face(it was not a lot), and hit with a hilo. Along with other things, I ended up walking out. Emotionally and mentally I am a wreck.
At first I went to the police and wanted to file charges for being hit. They told me I had to file a PPO on who started it. I’m not sure. It’s seems to be everyone. Sometimes I think it’s her but she seemed to genuinely care for me at times and I would screw it because of everything that is going on. I honestly now think that outside of work was due to my brother, nephew and her ex- boyfriend. At work I think it’s my old employer and the two have meet in the middle so to speak. Which has ruined me. I left distraught. I then tried to file for discrimination. But, I have no idea what I’m doing. I was told I needed to go back to file charges. So I tried. The officer I talked to said that she couldn’t help it if no one likes me. She did not help me. She was in the age range that I usually get harassed by and implied that it’s whoever is following my family around. I would assume she knows what’s going on.
There is more to this officer. Right before loosening my car I kept getting pulled over and getting tickets. (This is likely due to erratic diving and behavior brought on by all of this) I ended up having to go to court and getting finger printed. When I went in she was normal talking to a male cop. When I left he was gone and she was giving me very dirty looks. When I went to court there was anther young female cop giving looks like she was interested in me on my way in. On my way out there was the same older male cop standing next to her and she turned her nose up at me and looked at him with a smile.
Currently I have no direction. I get harassed everywhere I go. I want to leave the town but I’ve lost everything because of this. I can’t talk to anyone about it. Everyone is involved. I have no money to move and cannot find employment that pays my bills. I’m not sure if I could handle it if I did. I’m a little scared of how it all will end up working out but I think I want to sue someone. I think I have a right to. I need to get in a healthy environment and can’t.
This happened over a very long time frame and there is much more. I think this is a good start and could really use some guidance.
Thank you