I meet someone on a dating website and we have been talking for several weeks, we finally meet up last Friday and after a night out of drinking came back to my place. We ended up having sex and she stayed over. In the morning her mother was calling her worried about her not coming home, she didn't answer the phone. The mother showed up at my house and took her daughter to the police station after finding out we had sex. She stated that she doesn't remember much of the night but thinks she may have been to drunk to consent. The mother believes her little princess would never have sex after the first date and thinks there was some drugs or misconduct involved which prompted her to take to the police station. The police searched my house but no charges have been filed. After giving my statement they (the detective) told me our stories were consistent and it seems like a case or regrettable sex rather than sexual assault. The cops took my sheets and my rx medications. They told me if her blood work was negative for drugs or roofies nothing would most likely come of it.
My question is, can I contact her and ask her to talk if no charges have been filed? I have not spoken to her since she left my house and when she was leaving we kissed and made plans to meet up later. This is all out left field, and shocking to me. This could ruin my life. I just started my career as a healthcare provider.
Further more, the cops found some weed and a stun gun in my stuff and said although I won't have to worry about the assault (as long I didn't roofie her, which I absolutely did not) but I will likely be brought up on charges of possession of mj and weapon??!
I'm freaking out here. Advice?
I want to text her to see what's going on and why this happening? From the night we had together I was thinking we were headed toward a relationship or at least a second date... She is 29 and I'm 30.
I spoke to an attorney and I was told not to talk to anyone, I figure if I speak to her and she tells me her mother put her up to it this could all go away??

