My question involves guardianship in the State of: Massachusetts
So myself and my husband signed over temporary guardianship because we wanted to get help with getting ourselves clean snd sober. We reached out for help because we knew te kids didbt deserve to live like that. So we have been clean/sober for 6 months. We have drug tests proving so and we just took a hair follicle to prove to DCF and the people who have our kids we are clean. We have little tiny numbers showing up on our drug tests but its not even close to the cut off range to make it positive. Example oxycodone cut off range is 1000. And our number is <0.3. So as you can see its such a tiny number so because everyone is accusing us of using we did a hair follicle. We did this for ourselves and for dcf but most of all so when we do go back to court we can show the judge we have been clean.
The people who have our kids are making it extrenely difficult for us o get our kids back..there talking keeping them for another year. My husband and i are in parenting classes, early recovery classes, and individual counceling classes we both also work. Husband works full time i work around 24-30hrs a week. I dont know what to do because we are doing EVERYTHING DCF is asking us to do. We just recieved our service plan a month ago and we started doing all our classes on our own. We also just made a relapse prevention plan. Does anyone have ANY advice. We did file to get a court appointed lawyer. Also the girl who has our youngest child very rarely lets us see our daughter..she wants every single copy of our drug test and if we even miss giving her one drug test she will pull our visit away & my suboxone doctor changed our format because the numbers kept showing up, so instead pf numbers showing up all it says negative and suboxone is the ONLY thing that shows up positive.
Now the grl who has my youngest said that drug test wont be acceptable ad that if i dont get the other format that we wont be able to see our daughter. It seems like this girl really wants to find everyway to make it so we dont see our daughter vecause she wants to keep her for herself because she doesnt have a girl. She as two boys. Please any advice. Im going back to court december 1st

