the father is around. he is good with HIM. Him and I are on the same page that I take my grandson. He is also young and living with his mother. My daughter is not living with me as of yesterday. she is not allowed back to my home. my grandson has been safe because I am around. she leaves and I stay with him.. she has walked over me and I have allowed this only because of my grandson because she has threatened to take him with her if I kick her out. there has to be something I can do