You mean when school starts I can put her down using my married last name without "officially" changing it? Also, there wasn't ever a custody or child support order issued. His name is not on the BC. There was a child support petition but he never showed up to give a sample of his DNA. The only time he has been on paper as her father is with DHS. So, with all of that. Can I just add my husband to her birth certificate and be done with it? Consider him the bio father? Rather than going thru a process that will very likely just disrupt our lives and bring my criminal ex back into the picture?

