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My assumption is she would, at the most, file for joint. She already asked me for it while she was still on house arrest and I turned it down. I can't trust our son is safe under her care or that she would be responsible enough to put his developmental and educational needs above her own.

I know it was mentioned that it isn't good to throw dirt at the other parent, but what if it was relevant to my sons safety. Her missing our son's Meet the Teacher Night to drink at the lake, (she posted a selfie with a beer bottle but it was covered in a coozie) and I just found out this past weekend, while my son was at her house, that she went to the bars and left adults at her house in charge where he got injured by her pit bull (minor injury, but I have 2 bites from that dog on file at the police station and she was supposed to get him trained). She posted on Facebook being 30mins away in another town at a bar while my son was there. Doesn't this show she is continuing her same lifestyle making her more susceptible to another DUI which would cause more psychological harm on our son? Or she could have the potential to drive drunk with him?
You are grasping at straws, and doing so unnecessarily. There is almost no chance that she is going to be granted a 50/50 timeshare again. Even if there were, worrying about it ahead of time does nothing but stress you out.