The way that I see it is that he clearly wants to be waited upon and pampered by his wife, and since she is not giving that to him, he wants to go home to Asia where he will be waited upon and pampered by his mother.
He also doesn't want to be obligated to pay alimony and child support based on his current income, because he is going to be earning only a fraction of that in Asia.
He obviously either doesn't want custody of his children or knows that he cannot get custody of his children since he is leaving for Asia in a couple of months, therefore that makes the whole video taping bit even more foolish. If somehow he has the idea that CPS will take the children away from mom, and then let him take the children outside of the country then he is truly living in fantasyland.

