Thank you. Very very good suggestions.
Two more questions:
Is my wife allowed to get into the house while I am not home? In one consultation with an attorney, she asked me change the door lock. I thought it was a silly idea. I didn't ask her about the legal issue. I regretted.
My wife has her apartment address protected. Only the domestic court knows. The court for divorce is a higher court. The two courts don't share information at all, even though they are in the same building. When we file divorce, we need to find a way to serve her. She always go to the church in Sunday morning. Can we ask the service people to deliver the note to her there in a Sunday morning? Otherwise we have to serve her in her work place. I know where it is, but not too sure her work schedule.
Thank you.

