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How? It wasn't her apartment or bathroom? What am I not getting?
Dad is being criticized for his decision-making. What I'm seeing is a parent who hasn't got a clue what does and doesn't represent a true emergency, and it is, very simply, not uncommon for the parent themselves trying to use the other parent's ignorance against them. Ignorance does not equate to sub-par parenting.

I will admit that I completely missed the Oregon part. Joint legal won't be ordered unless it's by agreement, so the point is moot.