What situations would have to change?
If we went back and came up with a plan would he be able to keep taking me to court? Or is it just because the default is one sided?
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Sorry one more thing...
The only thing I'm really determined about is sole custody. If the court feels more visits are better I'm game. Whatever is best for her is good with me. I won't fight over an extra weekend or whatever.
But I've always been the decision maker and have some other concerns with having the share that responsibility. He is not the most respondsible person, is not educated at all and overreacts extremely. An example is he found mildew in his bathroom and no matter who told him it wasn't black dangerous mold (a doctor and 2 mold guys) he had to move apartments or when my husband had pnuemonia he had a full meltdown because I didn't take our daughter who had no signs of sickness to the ER. I could go on and on but those are the reasons. I have always included NCP in what I choose and have always taken his opinion into account but at the end of the day I make the choice.

