hopefully each of you can find the happiness apart you could not find together.
but if you do attempt another relationship, you either go all the way and commit fully or it is destined to fail.
a corny line from a corny movie:
Mr Miyagi from the Karate kid speaking to Daniel about karate and commitment:
relationships are the same.Miyagi: Now, ready?
Daniel: Yeah, I guess so.
Miyagi: [sighs] Daniel-san, must talk.
[they both kneel]
Miyagi: Walk on road, hm? Walk left side, safe. Walk right side, safe. Walk middle, sooner or later
[makes squish gesture]
Miyagi: get squish just like grape. Here, karate, same thing. Either you karate do "yes" or karate do "no." You karate do "guess so,"
[makes squish gesture]
Miyagi: just like grape. Understand?
Daniel: Yeah, I understand.
Miyagi: Now, ready?
Daniel: Yeah, I'm ready.

