My best friend has a 2 year old son, with her husband. Unfortantly, the marriage did not work. She escaped the bad situation by moving to Illinois. He moved there to try to make it work, but he soon came back to Indiana. He has not been in contact with them in over a year. She can not afford a lawyer, or a divorce. We know there are certain laws when getting divorced with a minor involved, but she needs help. The state of Illinois said on every level they can not help her. What should her first step be to get a divorce, shild supoport, or to keep him from showing up and taking the son?

