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luvmydaughter
Wow, thanks for all of the quick replies. My wife and I are still thinking things through, as neither of us fares as well without the other, at least financially. So, we have to decide whether or not the level of unhappiness in the marriage is fixable and bad enough to decide that the happiness we hope for by separating will be worth it when compared to what we would be giving up financially. Neither of us have others we intend to start relationships with so that makes it easy now to think, "Why not just stay together?", but if either of us feels that they just cannot find an adequate level of happiness by staying in the marriage, I guess we will be looking into all of the things offered in this thread. Thanks again!