My question involves my wife living in another state and she has our son with her. I need her SSN for paperwork and I can not get her to give it to me. I went to the SSN administration and basically they will only help me with the right documents. I have his birth certificate but they need Immunization records or day care records. He is only 2 years old. She is being very difficult with the situation and will not cooperate. We are not divorced. How do I get her to work with me or what can I do. She has made it clear she refuses to give it to me.