Mr K and others who may consider taking time to help this OP, please see her posts on FA. She has admitted (loudly and proudly) that her husband has been screwing his employer for years now and that she thinks he ought to be able to continue to do so based solely on the fact that he got away with it before, he should therefore continue to get away with it.

Just saying this particular OP is a bit of a time-waster for those who actually want to help someone.