I did not start anything. Read my original post. Loud noise is a complaint, what I shared were facts I felt were relevant for the request. I spoke with as much respect as I could. I kept the information at bay before you felt it was necessary to tell me I should've know who I was sleeping with.
So, basically him being a drug addict, distributing drugs, being incoherent and aggressive would not be as helpful as saying that the reason I want to change the last name is because I don't want her to be confused. Because sharing that information with the court would be trash talking about him and complaining....
Anyways, this is a waste of both our time and energy. Have a good one.
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I have a partner who is basically has taken over since she was one. Thankfully he has always been here for her and wants to adopt her. She thinks that's 'dad'. I intend to tell her when the time is right that he's not the biological father but hopefully she'll be able to see that he's the one who's held her hand and soothe her crying when she was sad. He's the one who has provided for us and cared if there was food on our table. Hopefully she can see past that and still grow strong.

