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  1. #11
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    Default Re: Do I Have to Inform the Biological Father of His Last Name Removal or Get Permiss

    Quote Quoting jk
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    Yes, you might try that rather than complaining about the father of your child/

    this is all I said until you started all the trash talk about the father:




    You then started on the "he's a bad man" thing.

    so yes, you might want to stick to black and white and not put your feelings into a question that is black and white and was answered that way.

    I did not start anything. Read my original post. Loud noise is a complaint, what I shared were facts I felt were relevant for the request. I spoke with as much respect as I could. I kept the information at bay before you felt it was necessary to tell me I should've know who I was sleeping with.

    So, basically him being a drug addict, distributing drugs, being incoherent and aggressive would not be as helpful as saying that the reason I want to change the last name is because I don't want her to be confused. Because sharing that information with the court would be trash talking about him and complaining....

    Anyways, this is a waste of both our time and energy. Have a good one.

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    Quote Quoting BooRennie
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    Regardless, every time she sees one of her little friends with their dads, no matter her last name, she'll know that her 'daddy' isn't around. She'll be asking about him, even if you never say a word. No matter how many positive male role models in her life, she'll still know.

    You're fooling yourself if you think otherwise.
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    I have a partner who is basically has taken over since she was one. Thankfully he has always been here for her and wants to adopt her. She thinks that's 'dad'. I intend to tell her when the time is right that he's not the biological father but hopefully she'll be able to see that he's the one who's held her hand and soothe her crying when she was sad. He's the one who has provided for us and cared if there was food on our table. Hopefully she can see past that and still grow strong.

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    Default Re: Do I Have to Inform the Biological Father of His Last Name Removal or Get Permiss

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    I kept the information at bay before you felt it was necessary to tell me I should've know who I was sleeping with.
    huh? I said tell the court whatever reason you wanted to change the name. I had no idea what your reasoning was but it has since become clear. I didn't ask for a response. You then went into the "oh he's scary; he does drugs; yada yada."

    I simply responded to you berating him.

    So, basically him being a drug addict, distributing drugs, being incoherent and aggressive would not be as helpful as saying that the reason I want to change the last name is because I don't want her to be confused. Because sharing that information with the court would be trash talking about him and complaining....
    I see from your follow up none of that really has anything to do with changing the child's name. Courts tend to see through such arguments as well.


    I have a partner who is basically has taken over since she was one.
    and that is why your application may get shot down You ARE trying to remove the father from your child's life. Courts aren't stupid.

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    Default Re: Do I Have to Inform the Biological Father of His Last Name Removal or Get Permiss

    Seriously, why are you still arguing. HE removed himself from my child's life. I never said no, I don't want you in my childs life. Dude, seriously. I already obtained the information. Please move on with your life.

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    Default Re: Do I Have to Inform the Biological Father of His Last Name Removal or Get Permiss

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    Seriously, why are you still arguing. HE removed himself from my child's life. I never said no, I don't want you in my childs life. Dude, seriously. I already obtained the information. Please move on with your life.
    I'm here every night so I probably won't be moving on.

    but as to why I'm arguing? I'm not arguing. I am simply responding to your posts.

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    Default Re: Do I Have to Inform the Biological Father of His Last Name Removal or Get Permiss

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    Before everything happened. He WAS my partner. I didn't just pick up a random person and blew off steam. This person was the person I thought I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with. I have no fault that people have double lives and he chose to deceive me and turn into a psychopath the moment he found out we were expecting a child.

    This person I'm worried about, could be capable of hurting me and my daughter. He shouldn't have any rights after everything he has done. Did you think I wanted this for myself? For my child? NO. I loved him. I cared for him. But he is a monster. OBVIOUSLY, the only reason I would even consider to change her last name is because he ISNT exercising at ALL his rights. He has shown to be unstable.

    I came here for legal advice. Not a judgement, much less for you to mock the situation. If you do not have anything positive to contribute, please do not comment. Not everyone that has these things happen in their lives 'had it coming' or were 'naive'. This person I'm speaking about was human at some point, that point in which I saw a MAN. That man no longer is there.
    How has he shown himself unstable if you haven't seen him? When was he diagnosed as being a psychopath?

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