My question involves a marriage in the state of: Oregon
The Divorce was finalized in February of 2015, and the only thing listed for him is his "personal property". He moved to Idaho (his home state) before the divorce & loaded up a whole pickup load of stuff to take with him & told me verbally that he didn't want any more of the stuff at the house.
Now the divorce is final & although he has actually been gone for over a year from the state, he is now stating that he wants his tools & various other items. He is very angry because our 15 & 16 year old daughters don't want to go to Idaho for "visitations". He told me that he had over $30,000 worth of tools (completely ridiculous), and he's going to assign one of his old buddies that he use to hang around with to come to my house to do an "inventory of the tools" and if anything is missing - I will have to file a claim for the $30,000 against my homeowners insurance. He has allowed my sons from my prior marriage to use his tools, and one of them is on drugs. If anything is actually gone, I would guess it was sold for drugs; but he gave them permission to use anything they wanted. I didn't.
My ex-husband is on heavy meds because of a heart attack & several strokes, and has been an alcoholic for many years. He is use to getting his own way through intimidation & threats. Is it possible to get a protective order when he has visitation rights (although the teenagers don't want to see him)? I guess that question is for another forum....sorry.
Questions:
Do I have to allow his friend to search my property to do an "inventory" and report back to him. The friend is creepy and I have sole ownership of the property through the divorce.
At what point in time after a divorce can any property be considered abandoned, or do I have to allow him to come onto my property at any time in the future to retrieve whatever he considers his.

