Just to clarify, geek, and that is my point: I don't have a pattern of volatile relationships with women I work with. The second woman I mention is the only one I have dated that I worked with and the reason she went to say I was harassing her was because she knew that there was a precedent because the company never did anything to keep it private. I broke up with this woman because she tried to cheat on me with an ex co-worker. I spoke to him and he didn't know. He went to date her anyway but kept and eye on her and within a month he caught her cheating on him with three guys! He started the rumor at work of what she did and she decided I was responsible for her bad reputation because I warned the other guy of her behavior. Her accusation was her revenge. The revenge to the other guy was to call police to accuse him of harassing her at her home.

