My question involves a marriage in the state of:New York
Our daughter's divorce finalized 3 weeks ago. Two children 6 and 3. She has a part-time job. Until she can find suitable full-time employment they are living with me and my wife. Even though one is in kindergarten and the other occasionally goes to day care, we still spend considerable time babysitting them. Just to be clear, we love our grandchildren and our daughter, but don't think it's our job to provide free child care for her ex. He is required to pay 68% of child care expenses. Can we bill him for our services?
Related question: If he doesn't abide by the conditions of the divorce agreement is there a way for us to bring it to the attention of the judge (or someone) without hiring a lawyer to do it?
Thanks

