How Can I Convince the Judge That My Ex Needs Supervised Visitation

[Dogmatique]

I have physical custody. His dad only has joint legal custody and the judge said we should work towards joint physical. But he didn't say we have to. He just told us to follow the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines. But my sons dad doesn't deserve half time with my son or even the visitation the guidelines call for. He decided to get engaged to his gf and now they having a baby in December. So I want him on supervised visits starting in December.

Well, if we're deciding things based up on who deserves what, you'll be supportive of Dad having custody with supervised visitation for you - right?

Right....

[BrittneyD1234567]

I'm not the one who decided to start a new family. He's the one needs to be on supervised visits and that baby shouldn't be around my child

[cbg]

How is the baby going to harm your child?

[BrittneyD1234567]

I don't want my child thinking That baby is his family or that women is his mom. If he thinks that baby is his sibling he's gonna think that women's his mom.

[Mr. Knowitall]

And that argument will get you... absolutely nowhere in court, even if you offer to leave your abusive boyfriend and swear to a life of solitary abstinence.

People move on with their lives after their relationships end. They get into new relationships. They get married. They have more kids. Life goes on.

[cbg]

That baby IS his family. That baby is his half brother or sister, and your child has a RIGHT to a relationship with him or her.

Try that argument in court and your son just may end up living with his dad instead of with you.

[Dogmatique]

Try that argument in court and your son just may end up living with his dad instead of with you.

That's pretty much what we're hoping will happen.

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I'm not the one who decided to start a new family. He's the one needs to be on supervised visits and that baby shouldn't be around my child

And Dad's not the one with the felon bed buddy.

You think that's going to slip by unseen? Uh huh! Dad's already got enough to rid your poor child of his dreadful mother (that would be you, dear) as custodial parent.

[Mr. Knowitall]

Try that argument in court and your son just may end up living with his dad instead of with you.

In her other threads she has indicated that dad is already the primary caregiver, with her having given him custody while she works out the resolution with her abusive boyfriend.

[cbg]

So even she admits it's better for the child to be with Dad.

And she thinks Dad is going to get supervised visitation?

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Got any more good jokes like that?

[geek]

I don't want my child thinking That baby is his family or that women is his mom. If he thinks that baby is his sibling he's gonna think that women's his mom.

That baby IS his family. The father IS his family.

You are bent out of shape because he has a new girlfriend, even if it's okay for you to have a boyfriend (and an abusive one at that) That's what it boils down to.

Get help. Mental health help.

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In her other threads she has indicated that dad is already the primary caregiver, with her having given him custody while she works out the resolution with her abusive boyfriend.

And in another thread, she is whinging about child support. Hopefully Dad will get that squared away soon, so that she is paying him.