Hello, I am from Colombia. This is my second time in USA with a J1 visa. I came one month ago to work as a trainee in a company, the job is for one year and a half. The last time I was an Au Pair for two years.
My boyfriend and I want to get married soon but I am afraid of the fact I came not long time ago would be a problem for us. Also I don't know if they could think my intention to come here was a marriage which is not true because I already lived here before and didn't get married, I paid a lot of money to get into the trainee program and because I met my boyfriend 9 months ago in Colombia, but we started talking and started a relationship 3 weeks ago when he knew I was here.
My question would be, is there any appropiate time to get married after one comes here with a J1 visa? I came here on February 28th and we are planning our wedding for May 25th.
He lives in South Carolina which is 10 hours driving from New Jersey, where I live, it's too hard to see each other often, plus we are ready to start a family together. Even thought is too soon we have a very strong connection and we are sure about our love.
Thanks in advance for your answer.

