My question involves defamation in the state of: New York
A student (who is white) in my class who uses the N-word, but tells me it is ok because he ends it with "a" instead of "er" reported me to the Assistant Principal. The student also is disruptive and has a history of causing trouble at my school. This is well documented by teacher anecdotals over the last three years. The Assistant Principal is aware of his history but still warned me with very negative word. I work at an "elite," famous school that has often is in the news, especially as of late.
The Assistant Principal stated that the student claims I called him a block of granite and this was degrading to the student. I explained that I said that I had told him many times about using this word and about getting to class on time, taking his notebook out, etc. I said, "However, if you are not listening me, I might as well be talking to a goldfish or a granite counter top." The Assistant Principal told me that I could not speak to a student like that. I question why. How is this so offensive?
I am disgusted and am interested in suing the student's parents because their child slandered me. The Assistant Principal told me that there is no slander and that I cannot do anything (as a union member). She told me that there are no damages. I said, "but there are. I am sitting here right now with you." The Assistant Principal claimed that she was "on my side" and does not want to investigate.
I want to investigate because the next time a student says ABC about me, I will be in trouble. I want the parents to know that this is NOT ok.
Thank you.

