If you do not want to be apart, you will need to move to where she is if you are permitted to so so be her country . If you plan to become involved with US immigration processing of a fiance, you should expect delays and problems and be pleasantly surprised when things go well. Otherwise, only become involved with people who have the legal right to live in the US already.
It is really frustrating that you think that your relationship is so special that you should receive special consideration from an agency of the US government which has many other petitions to process for situations more compelling than you not wanting to be apart from your prospective spouse. You will just have to wait your turn; it is best that neither of you does anything to complicate things further.


