"Get a grip"? Seriously - I'm not stupid. Of course I know he can't be involved since he's miles away. The point is he moved to California without notifying anyone. Neither my son or I know when he left the state. While he was in NY, he CHOSE not to be involved in my son's life. Often times even leaving us waiting for him to show up at our designated meet up spot. I even took him to court for missing visitation. Now he proceeds to slander me on social media saying I am restricting him from seeing "his son" when in reality he doesn't even try to call. Not to mention, how the courts target and incarcerate fathers; and how the NYS court system broke his bond with "his child". He was never interested in having a bond in the first place. He could have easily sought out his son while he was still in NY but he chose to never contact his son and then proceeded to move to California.
The rest it's just honest questions I had. I didn't think the conspiracy thing mattered. I just wanted to confirm. And I doubt his marijuana "business" is legal at all. He's too anti-government to get permission to do what he already has done for years.
I will reach out to the courts in my area. Thank you for your time and for clarifying.

