My question involves paternity law for the State of: Arkansas (us) Missouri (mother of child, or Georgia. I can't keep up)
In 2011 my husband started seeing a woman who's husband was deployed to Kuwait. (how shady on both of them, I know!)
Obviously they were intimate. A child was eventually born and the woman who was married at the time and is still married put her husbands name on the birth certificate. The child was born after the husband returned from Kuwait. It is blurry to me whether or not he was present for the childs birth but I know they were together at the time so one would have to assume he was present and actually signed the birth certificate, right? Meanwhile my husband are on and off but that does not matter. We are back together and completely happy now but now the (still) married woman is claiming something about legitimizing her kid and taking her husbands name off of the birth certificate to have my husband pay child support because she "needs help" does her husband not make enough to support them? She is also a nurse.... A nurse who is supposedly in basic training for the army to come out as an officer. Her pay alone as an officer in the army would be more than mine and my husbands combined which we have our own child.
Anyway, I got off topic. About 6 months ago my husband (ignorant at the time) agreed to and took a "peace of mind" paternity test and it does not take Maury for one to be able to tell that he donated his sperm to that baby. Since that 6 month period we have had the child overnight one time as we thought we were going to be a part of her life but it was not what we thought to be the best for the child. (moral thumpers comment on another thread) She has a father who is not biologically hers but loves her as his own and a mother as well as siblings under her own roof. We did not want to confuse her, our own son, or us with having her here. We felt it was best to go our separate ways as our own family entity as well as they be their own family entity. To protect our union and our son who would start asking why his father cheated on his mother and therefore set a bad example later down the road.
The mother claims we will have a court order for child support within the next month but how on earth could that even be possible in a 3-6 month period. How could that even be possible if my husband has not taken a court ordered paternity test?
We are starting to think this woman is off her rocker and we just want her to leave us be so we can all move on from this little mishap. What are her rights to my husbands paycheck, if any while she is married and the father of her child is thought to be her husband by the law?
any help would be GREATLY appreciated. I just want to be able to sleep at night. Could we get a restraining order on the woman, she will not stop bothering is. Would that even help?

