You need to back up a bit.
I'm going to assume that you were never married to dad. If not, did you ever establish paternity through the courts?
You need to back up a bit.
I'm going to assume that you were never married to dad. If not, did you ever establish paternity through the courts?
and it does sound like you know who the father is, even if he did not sign the AOP or it was determined judicially.
but anyway, start here