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    Default Re: Changing Parenting Days

    Dad currently picks her up Friday morning from daycare and returns her to me on Sunday evening; my plan is to ask for a change to Saturday morning (pick up with me) and drop off Monday evening (drop off also with me) which would eliminate any future need for him to go to her daycare. Dad's time won't be reduced in any way, there's just a change in which days he has his parenting time. His time is only on the weekends because he lives three hours away, and in the year prior to the order being established, he had only seen her two times, so the judge/mediator had issues with her age (2) and her being with him when she didn't really know him. It's important to keep her at the same daycare because it is the only daycare she has ever attended, the provider has become like a second grandmother to her, and it's the only daycare I can afford.

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    Dad currently picks her up Friday morning from daycare and returns her to me on Sunday evening; my plan is to ask for a change to Saturday morning (pick up with me) and drop off Monday evening (drop off also with me) which would eliminate any future need for him to go to her daycare. Dad's time won't be reduced in any way, there's just a change in which days he has his parenting time. His time is only on the weekends because he lives three hours away, and in the year prior to the order being established, he had only seen her two times, so the judge/mediator had issues with her age (2) and her being with him when she didn't really know him. It's important to keep her at the same daycare because it is the only daycare she has ever attended, the provider has become like a second grandmother to her, and it's the only daycare I can afford.
    That may not work if dad has to work on Mondays...and of course won't work in a couple of years when she starts school. Of course, the Friday mornings won't work in a couple of years either. What about switching dad's pickup time to your lunch hour so that you could pick up the child from daycare and exchange her with dad in some neutral place?

    What is dad doing that has caused the daycare provider to not want him at her home?

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    Dad doesn't work; hasn't work since right after we split up (in an effort to avoid paying child support.) The daycare provider does not want him coming to her home because he has put her in the middle of our disagreements, he shows up late (never at his assigned time), disrupts the other children; she pretty much just doesn't want to deal with it anymore.

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    Dad doesn't work; hasn't work since right after we split up (in an effort to avoid paying child support.) The daycare provider does not want him coming to her home because he has put her in the middle of our disagreements, he shows up late (never at his assigned time), disrupts the other children; she pretty much just doesn't want to deal with it anymore.
    In that case, Saturday to Monday would work, at least until she starts school.

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