TE=llworking;860082]Tried to take them to Portland for a visit or tried to move them to Portland. You do realize that you had no right to take her children away from her?
Tried to move them to Portland with new BF of 3 months. I did not take her children she left them with me for 3.5 weeks. DId I not have a right to let their father have them?
A parenting plan can very well be the same as a court order if it is signed off on by a judge.
Awesome! He was told though he just had to have it notarized and filed with the court. This is what I understood anyway.
It might get even messier and harder if you don't watch what you are doing.
Yes I understand. That is why I am here. I have used this forum several times for other issues and the folks here have always been very helpful. Of course I have told him he has to get proper legal advice irl..
Grandma, its important that you understand that what you and I might deem as unfit is highly likely not to be deemed as unfit by the courts.
Can I explain the what I deem unfit and get your opinion? Preferably in pvt...
No, its not about kidnapping at all. Both mom and dad have equal legal rights to the children and therefore neither one of them can be treated as kidnappers. You, on the other hand could possibly be treated as a kidnapper for taking the children away from their mother.
I misspoke. I know it was not legally kidnapping sorry I was talking from emotions.... I did not take her children She left her children in my care for 3.5 weeks. Treated as a kidnapper for giving them to their father?
No, keep everything in the same thread.
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Yes, she can take them from you any time she wants and there is not a danged thing that you can do about it. She could take them from anyone that he leaves them with. Even if he gets primary custody she can STILL take the children from someone he leaves them with.[/QUOTE]
When I went through a custody battle with my son my attorney failed to tell me that it could happen even after I got primary custody...thanks!
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Sorry about not quoting properly. Been a long time since I used a forum...I will keep trying![]()

