My question involves criminal law for the state of: VA
I think I made a very dumb move. My ex contacted me several times since breakup. We even agreed to do joint counseling on neutral grounds. When she was a no-show, I was trying to text her a few times to check what happened along with several other questions and got no reply. So I thought I send her an e-mail asking if she remembered when we made porn of her that "one special night" just to make her talk or say something. Next thing I know, her current boyfriend called me to lecture me that I shouldn't be sending those kind of e-mails because she could call the cops on me or sue me on blackmail charges. Can that really happen even if I never had any other intentions besides just to try make her text/e-mail me back? I don't even have any intention at all of leaking it out on Internet since I'm well aware of revenge porn laws.