My question involves restraining orders in the State of: MA
I am charged with violating an order last year for writing a blog post in which I mentioned an ex-gf and whom I have not seen since 2009. The blog does not exist and was not presented as evidence.
I was in Mexico at the time of the summons and currently have a bench warrant because I did not show up to the summons in 2013; I'm currently 3000 miles away.
The violation was the result of the restraining order issued a year prior (and extended for a year as a result) of which I was never aware; I was also living in Mexico. The restraining order claims I have sent emails, while in Mexico, making her feel threatened. The emails were not used as evidence.
The lawyer was very helpful and wants, what I believe is a fair price (1k for first motion to dismiss the restraining order of which I was not aware - she provided a fake address and there are a plethora of bounced envelopes to prove this - and couple other motions as well like 1st amendment rights/lack of proof the thing exists etc.). If these fail, and he thinks it's 50/50, I will need to fly and pay more and so on.
He believes there's a chance the judge may simply be too cautious and would prefer to have me there, requiring a 2nd or 3rd appearance. We are also concerned that when they contact her, she will fight this (she has the means and, seemingly, the will).
What would be the most prudent and affordable way for me to approach this? Book the ticket now and get a public defender or drop what little savings I have left on the lawyer, hoping the case will be dismissed on the first motion or what?
Thank you

