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.. do you realize what you're saying?

She'd be fine as long as you get ROFR?
I think what she is saying is that she is not comfortable with the girlfriend being around the child at all, let alone being alone with the child. I actually can understand why. The combo of DUI combined with RX drug fraud could lead to valid concern that the person caring for the child would be in a sober enough condition to provide adequate care.

This is one where I really ride the fence. They have an ROFR in place and it should be honored. She has every right to take dad to court for contempt for not honoring the ROFR. At the same time, based on dad's working hours and the fact that the child would be asleep for most of that time, it seems a bit unfair to invoke the ROFR. Yet again, if dad is working until 3 or 4 AM and then coming home and sleeping for 8 hours, then what point is there for the child to be at dad's from about 6:30PM until noonish the next day?

I am not sure what I would do in mom's shoes.