
Quoting
Boston75
well, the story gets more confusing
when i first decided to apply to grad school back in february he said he could probably help me.
then i asked about that after i was accepted and he said maybe he could cover a class or two per semester
then maybe a month later he called me and said he could actually pay for the whole thing over a four year commitment (i never accepted this idea, i knew i wouldnt stay that long)
then in may when it came time to discuss my raise i said i wanted an increase to 40,000 which i thought was great, but in discussing with my friend they reminded me about his offer to pay for school
i asked him and he said he cant give me a raise and pay for school, so we left it at that
then back in august my work continued to increase significantly and i asked for another raise by email
so he said he could provide it as an educational bonus for that amount
then, like i said before, we got into the discussion where i said it should not be for school it should be part of my salary and spread over time and he said he had to give it all at once
i said ok, and it was deposited directly to me as a bonus.