Go see and attorney, come up with an enforceable parenting plan and request joint legal custody. In your parenting plan, include the often missed details like who is responsible for pick up and travel, ask your attorney about ROFR , think about using My Family Wizard (offer to pay - it's $99/person/year but it's a sanity-saver in many cases), and head on over to deltabravo.net.
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You need dates for holidays who gets what and when, talk about the tax implications....

