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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    yes, the suspended license is the desired result at this time. keep in mind he has not worked since we split up (he earns some income in mysterious ways, of which i do not see a single dollar). he has told me he will not work because then he will have to give me his money. he doesn't get it that this is not for me to get my nails done or frolick on a beach, its for his son for things like food and clothing and other basic necessities. i have in the past asked him for help with day care costs. he could pay directly to the day care. he said no he would not pay these costs "just so i can go to work"...as if that is something similar to frolicking on the beach. so he is headstrong and does these things out of immaturity. he apparently has no qualms not working, not earning money, not supporting his child and is getting by just fine for himself and has no intention of changing. so yes i see your point about the job but that has been a non issue and i dont anticipate that changing any time soon. so if he has no intention of working why does he need a license? so he can run around town all day with his boys?


    can i file a petition for order to show cause in the state of il and list the amount he is behind based on current information DCFS gives me? as i said, i would like him to face a judge about this and maybe get a little hand slap at least. something to start this process for real as it appears the state has too large a backlog to make this their priority.

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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    I really am just frustrated. And I really will go to their office very soon.. where I will still be a number all be it an actual physical presence. And i will gently reiterate my story again. And wait again.

    I believed in him once upon a time. I don't expect thousands of dollars.. I just want something. Enough to buy some clothes for a season, or food, or to pay for soccer shoes and swimming lessons. Its the principal. I want him to man up. Its sad and its aggravating. I want him to squirm once maybe and face a judge who tells him to support his child. It really seems like a no brainer ... Sad its not to so many.

    can I file a petition to show cause or do anything while the DCFS moves slowly along? Like double team him along with them or anything?

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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

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    A person doesn't get to use "parent" status to avoid punishment for going against a court order...unless you meant something else.
    I'm not quite sure what you're saying here.

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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

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    I'm not quite sure what you're saying here.

    Clearly.

    You said: "Guess I just don't think in terms of "punishment" for the other parent. "

    I responded: "A person doesn't get to use "parent" status to avoid punishment for going against a court order...unless you meant something else. "

    To dumb it down even further: "Your words indicated that you don't think punishment is appropriate". Followed by "If you mean something else, please clarify".

    This really isn't brain surgery, surely?

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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    Well, in that case, it would seem you don't have much to lose. At least it might get his attention. Hope it goes well for you, honey, I do understand what you're trying to do. Good luck.

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    Default Re: How to Get Somebody's License Suspended for Nonpayment of Child Support

    Quote Quoting Dogmatique
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    Clearly.

    You said: "Guess I just don't think in terms of "punishment" for the other parent. "

    I responded: "A person doesn't get to use "parent" status to avoid punishment for going against a court order...unless you meant something else. "

    To dumb it down even further: "Your words indicated that you don't think punishment is appropriate". Followed by "If you mean something else, please clarify".

    This really isn't brain surgery, surely?
    I didn't say punishment was inappropriate at all. I don't think my words indicate such either. Just that I don't think in terms of that. Not that we're children, but I think it is a bit similar to two children and their parent. Child 1 has had a favorite toy broken by child 2. Hopefully child 1 isn't hoping for a particular punishment for child 2. Hopefully child 1 is hoping his parent corrects the situation by motivating child 2 to not break any more toys and somehow fix the one that's already broken. It's a difference in attitude.

    So you made an assumption about my meaning, and are now talking about brain surgery. I see.

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