My question involves a child custody case from the State of: KY
Background: Summer visitation between my child's Mother and I is every other week for a total of 4 weeks (unless she wants to allow more which she does not agree to) in the summer and then every other weekend. Weeks run Sunday to Sunday from 5:00 to 5:00 unless we agree on a different time on Sunday, then that time is moved. My child's stepfather texted me Sunday at noon asking to drop my child off at my house instead of our normal meeting place an hour away (we live 2 hours apart) if I would agree to bring my daughter back to their home next Sunday as they were passing through our city on their way home from being out of town. We were out of town and had already made our plans to meet in our normally scheduled placed at 5:00, therefore I told him that we would just stick to meeting there as we had already made plans and they had not given us enough time to change those plans. After he stated he would not be meeting us there at 5:00, it would be 7:00 at the earliest that they could make it there, I agreed to have them drop my daughter off with me at my house. They then argued back and said they would just meet me in our normal spot at 7:00 PM. Once again, I agreed. Not happily, but I agreed.
The Mother of my child then calls me and states that she will not be bringing my daughter to meet me at all and that I will be missing this last week of my summer vacation because she is angry with me stating that she does not have to agree to send her daughter with anyone when she does not know what she is doing at every moment. She claims I do not answer my phone and sent my 6 year old to my house with a working cell phone the last week she came and I told her my daughter would not be allowed to use it. All calls needed to go through me. She is claiming I never answer my phone, however phone logs will prove otherwise in court as in a 2 month time period I have made 23 outbound calls to her and she has made 21 inbound calls to me. Seems pretty equal to me. The Mother ended that phone call my stating that if I call or text her she will file harassment charges and that she hopes I "crash and die"
So, with school beginning in 2 weeks, I will not have a makeup week as we will not get in court in time and she thinks that I do not allow her communication with our daughter and that is reason enough to keep her from me, which as I stated before, is a total lie.
My question is this, this is not the first time this has happened. I have taken her to court three other times before for disregarding our court ordered agreement and all the judge tells her is to not do it again, and this last time she ordered us to counseling and stated we needed to work on communication.
When will the courts/judge have enough of this behavior and what am I supposed to do as a Father? She does not do drugs, she is not an alcoholic, I cannot prove her unfit, but since she keeps getting away with it she will continue time and time again to take my time. My weeks are crucial to my relationship with my daughter as I only have her four weeks in the summer, one week of christmas and Fall/Spring break if it is my year.
I know nobody can tell me what a judge would decide, but based on past experience, when is enough enough from a Judge's standpoint?
I am going to request that my week be made up the week of Christmas so that I have both weeks of Xmas vacation and will have her for Xmas as I already have her fall and spring break this year so if I do not, I will have to wait until next Summer. I am also going to request that we do 28 straight days in the summer since we cannot agree on meeting times, and so that she cannot get angry like this and take any of my weeks away.
Any advice would be helpful.

