My question involves a marriage in the state of: Virginia
My husband and I have not begun the divorce process yet and he is a bitter person that seems willing to spend every penny we own to take everything I own. So to speak. He is going to file for an at fault divorce because I had an affair. Assuming he wins, he says he will take custody of the kids and my equity in the house and demand child support from my income. He will basically kick me out of the house and make me pay him child support. This seems extreme, but he has a lawyer that has convinced him it's possible. The value of our assets isn't enough to even pay the legal fees.
The best part is he is using this as leverage to force me to reconcile.
I know there are a lot of factors that I left out. Is his lawyer's assessment of the award even realistic?

