I have an acquaintance that's admired a rare and valuable antique I own. A few years ago I told her I would leave it to her in my will. Recently, I received a call from her saying she wants it NOW rather that wait for the unlikely event I will pass before this September (she wants to give it to her daughter as a birthday gift). I was really aghast at her chutzpah. I've never heard of someone so impatient to receive a bequeathment as to demand it before the persons death. Is this normal? Opinions?